When you want to play with or against players who are STRONGER than you:!
Ask Politely and Give Them an Out. For example, "Do you all mind if I get a game in with you, or would you rather play on your own?"!
Ask at the Beginning or End of the Day. Approach when they are warming up or cooling down. DON'T go when they are in the midst of a streak of higher-level play.!
Accommodate Their Flow. If you DO approach them in the midst of higher- level play, accommodate their flow. Ask "Hey, do you mind if I get a game in with you all before you quit today?" so that they can continue playing, but will hopefully commit to playing with you later.!
Be Conscientious. If they do play a few games with you, make it easy for them to bow out and play with other higher-level players so that they will be more likely to want to play with you again in the future. You might say, "Hey, I see you can get a good game in against those guys, I'll sit this one out and maybe we can play again later if you have a chance."!
Hit to Them! No one likes to watch their partner hit all the balls during recreational play. The higher-level player is doing you a favor by playing with you, so hit the ball to them at least half the time. It will make you a better player, make it more fun for them, and make it more likely that they will play with you again next time.!
Don't Be Obnoxious If You Win. It can be challenging to stay focused when playing with weaker players, so they may not be playing at the top of their game. Or, they may be focusing on improving their own shots. Either way, be gracious.!
Show Your Appreciation. If they give you feedback on your game, have an open mind and be appreciative of them taking the time to play and help you.!
Don’t Take It Personally. Some people just aren’t going to be very friendly about it. Don’t let them get to you. Remember, it’s only pickleball! 😉 !